OPENING OUR EYES
PORTUGAL
12 – 15 MAY 2023
Join the adventure
Touch&Play is an international movement – a sexy, adventurous, embodied and deeply heart-centered family – that has fins it’s way to Portugal.
Sometime things move slowly here. Or just great things need good preparations. 🙂 Finally this year Touch&Play will happen in Portugal and we’re all excited about it.
During four days we’ll be setting the space and frame to dance, play and discover the Touch&Play work and community in an intimate gathering. We will begin by diving into the Touch&Play’s de-CIDE Consent Framework so that we all have a chance to learn how to explore and communicate our boundaries and desires in an effective and authentic way.
We’ll have guided workshops and activities during the day and the evenings will be reserved for more open-guided spaces to jam and explore. The whole journey will center community building processes such as morning check-ins, sharing groups, shared meals and singing circles.
We’ll dive into a journey together where we’ll use the guidance of our curiosity, our desires and boundaries to find out what we want to explore.
OFFERINGS
Our retreats are filled with inspiring offers that form the bedrock of the Touch&Play work and community. In these smaller gatherings programming is focused on a single track creating a strong group field and a deep shared journey.
Our schedule while structured has flexibility to shift to the needs and wishes of the group.
Our facilitators will adapt the order and content of certain offerings to enhance the communities experience.
We start with a deep dive into Touch&Play’s Embodied Consent work practice expressing our desires and boundaries in an effective way.
During the days the core facilitators will offer a number of shorter workshops to familiarize folks with the different T&P flavors and the evenings are dedicated to jams and more open and improvisational activities. To enhance the co-creational aspect of the gathering usually the T&P community members are welcomed to share their own offerings during one of the days of the retreat.
Topics and offerings at Touch&Play events Focus on the exploration of the Relational Body and are drawn from practices that include: Contact Improvisation, conscious sexuality, Kink, Gender exploration and queerness, Ritual arts, Tantra, Grief work, Primal play, Ecosexuality, Rope play, Polyamory, Authentic movement, Play Fighting and Expressive arts.
JAMS
Dance and listen. Listen and express. Express and discover.
SHARING GROUPS
Personal process in small groups
THE ORACLE
The voice of the group
LIQUID LOVE
Self-exploration, melt and dance in coconut oil
GRIEF RITUAL
Space to morn
Container
We hold containers focussed on embodied consent and boundaries, inclusivity, support, and radical nonjudgment; we hope to cultivate an essential sense of trust for edge-pushing explorations to bravely unfold.
All are warmly welcome, to come as your full, unfiltered, beautiful self.
Here, we can cultivate a space of radical celebration – of removing the layers and wounds of shame, stigma, and oppression, and remembering a sense of freedom, choice, authenticity, and deep connection to ourselves, to each other, and to this great earth.
TEAM
Our retreat was created and will held by our core facilitators: Rita Vilhena (PT) and Daniel Hayes (NL, USA). After our dive into Touch&Play’s Embodied Consent work we will teach some of the fundamentals of Contact Improvisation. Once grounded into our selves and our collective we will venture out to explore the concept of Kink through various power, rope, role and sensation play scenarios and dive into an embodied exploration of gender and everything it entails.
The facilitators are elders from our community with a intimate knowledge of the culture and praxis that form the roots our the Touch&Play work.
The participants – a group of dancers, movers, somatic learners, spiritual magic makers, embodied humans, vulnerable deep-divers, and relational explorers – are also invited to propose an offering during the gathering
We call in this community, expanding within and expanding throughout, to gather in a new creation.
you are warmly welcome, to come as your full, unfiltered, beautiful self.
Looking forward to Dance with you,
Daniel, Adi and Rita
From passive consumption to active Co-Creation:
YOUR PRESENCE
Touch&Play from its inception has been based on questions rather than answers. We don’t pretend to know what it is that you want or need nor what you will actually take with you from your time with us.
We frame out spaces as Experimential, being both Experimental and Experiential and invite you to be the principal author of your journey. Through that lens we gift the opportunity to contribute to and enrich the journeys of around you. We form an (a)temporal and interdependent community where all our thoughts, feelings and actions are woven together in a rich relational web.
How do you want to show up in this tribe and what do you want to offer? As you step in and become familiar with our practices and culture you will see many ways of adding your grain of salt. Perhaps you feel called to join our Soothe & Care Team or hold a booth at the Exploratorium maybe you decide to sign up for an extra chore or propose a community offering or affinity group. The ways of stepping up are many and you get to feel into how you want to be part.
Soothe & Care team
When you register you will be asked if you want to be part of the Soothe & Care team.
In order to create a safer container we invite volunteers (participants, teachers) to form part of the Sooth&Care team. This means contributing a little of your time supporting participants in processing their experiences by (e.g. co-regulation, deep listening, being present, finding a container for emotional release). As part of the Sooth & Care team you will need to attend a short pre-festival briefing onsite by the Soothe & Care Team Lead(s) in the afternoon before the festival starts. During the festival you will meet once or twice as a team to share your observations and experience of the group. The commitment to the role doesn’t require much times and it is flexible so it aligns with your own needs and boundaries. Within the team you’re mutually supporting each other and it’s a lovely way to bring your contribution.
VENUE & PRACTICALITIES
The gathering will take place at The Garden, north of Portugal. This is an incubator for a cultural renaissance, an emerging retreat center that it is aligned with T&P values and last minute contact us to host the retreat on their beautiful land.
Used to be a wedding venue that would host two weddings simultaneously. The place feels somewhere between a botanical garden and a nature park.
We are grateful to have our first T&P Portugal hosted in The Garden, hoping many more editions will flourish here.
COMMUN SPACES
Dance studio
Embodiment room
Communal dinning room
Sauna and Pool
Little hidden nooks and cozy corners to explore
2000 m2 of infrastructure
Gigabit fibraoptic internet.
SORROUNDINGS
9 hectares (90,000sqm) of gated, exclusive estate surrounded by granite walls
10 minutes by car from a supermarket and hardware store
5 minutes from the Lima river, 20 minutes from beach, 20 minutes from waterfalls, 1 hour from ancient roman hotsprings
The nearest train station is Darque, which is 12 minutes away by car
45 minutes from Porto Airport (45 Euro Uber aprox)
ACCOMODATIONS
Option to sleep in our Bell tents dorms, vast land to free camping with tent or van or private room (for 1 or 2) in a Bell tent or in the building.
Nourishment
We’ll be offered 3 delicious vegetarian meals a day. In case you have some food allergies, let us know during the registration.
Delicious Food. Local organic products. Mainly vegetarian meals.
Practicalities
GUIDELINES
Group size
This will be a retreat with between 30-50 people
GETTING THERE
The Garden
Caminho do Monte, Deocriste, 4905-256 – Portugal
Once your register you will receive a document to self organise share rides.
Main entrance: Location
More info about Getting there
ARRIVING & DEPARTURES
Check in: 12th May from 15:00 to 16.00h
Soothe&Care meeting 12th May at 15pm (optional)
Please be aware the gathering holds a container, when you book we ask you arrive for the beginning of the event. In order to create our shared inspirational container we ask to be there on time in order to not miss the opening circle, our mandatory consent intro and more important information about our gathering.
Departure time May 15th 4pm
Team and Work-exchange participants arriving the 11th of May at 13pm
PRICING
Reserve your spot: 150€ non-refundable deposit for your registration.
Different options for different economic realities. Tickets start at 150€
More info on the registration page.
What to bring
* bed sheets or sleeping bag (you can rent bed linen for 15€ includes bed linen, pillow and blanket)
* camping gear if camping
*towel
*headlamp
* slippers for indoors, comfortable shoes for outdoors
*water bottle with a lid (please no glass bottles in studios)
* insect repellent
* cloths for sunny days or cold evenings
* earplugs
* flashlight or headlamp
* toiletries
* business cards, handmade products or other beautiful things you sell the last day of the retreat
* instruments
* personal journal
* dancing clothes
* costumes!
* toys!
* any personal items to feel more comfortable
Map
Contact
More questions? Sure! portugal@touchandplay.org
PORTUGAL
REGISTRATION IS CLOSED
The Touch&Play project started in 2010 and grew from an exploration of the chemistry and the edges of Contact Improvisation.
It currently frames itself as an exploration of “The Relational Body” which uses CI as one of a few core practices to do this.
In this 10+ years this project built up a diverse and inspiring international community.
TOUCH&PLAY GLOBAL
The first Touch&Play gathering took place in 2010 in Berlin focusing on an exploration of The chemistry of Contact Improvisation. The current frame is a wider one and is described as an exploration of “The relational body”.
Contact Improvisation is now one of the many tools we use for this exploration along side dance, kink,, somatics, tantra, authentic relating, NVC.
Our values center on play, authenticity, inclusion, embodied consent and community.
We seek with curiosity, play and vulnerability how to individually and collectively dismantle the systems of oppression that live in our bodies, minds and spirits to seed peace in our world. We awaken more vibrantly our emotional, somatic and erotic intelligence.
“Leave the relationships more beautiful than you found them.”
REGISTRATION IS CLOSED
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